John, I followed some of the blog links on your sidebar. You are an adult and can make your own decisions and I'm not trying to give you unsolicited advice.... but would you reconsider whether you are in a good frame of mind to be reading My Husband is Annoying? I had not seen this blog before, and although her anecdotes concern fairly trivial matters, I would hate for those stories to make you feel bad about yourself. You've been hurt very deeply and don't need to have those kinds of things on your mind.
First and foremost, thank you so much for reading and making a comment. Seriously! I'm so glad you are out there.
As for that specific blog, it hasn't been very active. But here is my process.
I was looking for resources for husbands - there aren't a lot out there. But given the title of the blog, it appeared prominently. When I read it I said to myself, "that's not me" and "that's not me either." I'm not saying I'm perfect, by any means. But many of the stereotypical husband things I simply don't do - and my spouse agrees! So, I believe my wife has it better than that author.
But mostly - and this is probably as deep as it goes - when you have a blog you are 'supposed to' have a blogroll on the side. I can now check that off. I have a blogroll.
When people seek other things its becuz they are lacking something .find out the deep truth and figure out if the good out weighs the bad. And build on your knowledge . Sometimes people are flawed way deeper than u think. But marriage is like a puzzle it takes a lifetime to truly get all the pieces rite.seek the truth make a decision becuz life is to short to be unhappy
John, I followed some of the blog links on your sidebar. You are an adult and can make your own decisions and I'm not trying to give you unsolicited advice.... but would you reconsider whether you are in a good frame of mind to be reading My Husband is Annoying? I had not seen this blog before, and although her anecdotes concern fairly trivial matters, I would hate for those stories to make you feel bad about yourself. You've been hurt very deeply and don't need to have those kinds of things on your mind.
ReplyDeleteFirst and foremost, thank you so much for reading and making a comment. Seriously! I'm so glad you are out there.
ReplyDeleteAs for that specific blog, it hasn't been very active. But here is my process.
I was looking for resources for husbands - there aren't a lot out there. But given the title of the blog, it appeared prominently. When I read it I said to myself, "that's not me" and "that's not me either." I'm not saying I'm perfect, by any means. But many of the stereotypical husband things I simply don't do - and my spouse agrees! So, I believe my wife has it better than that author.
But mostly - and this is probably as deep as it goes - when you have a blog you are 'supposed to' have a blogroll on the side. I can now check that off. I have a blogroll.
I didn't spend a lot of time on it.
When people seek other things its becuz they are lacking something .find out the deep truth and figure out if the good out weighs the bad. And build on your knowledge . Sometimes people are flawed way deeper than u think. But marriage is like a puzzle it takes a lifetime to truly get all the pieces rite.seek the truth make a decision becuz life is to short to be unhappy
ReplyDeleteThank you, KaStarya. Thank you.
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